Welcome to my blog
This blog is a compilation of thoughts, musings and experiences of my life as a Civil Celebrant, mixed in with my reactions to relevant current events and news stories. There’s always lots to talk about!
Clearing up the Confusion
One of the hardest battles that confront me is persuading couples to use my services! Not that I am not a good celebrant (I believe most would say I’m a very good one!). But the real reason is that, if they’re not having a church wedding, they assume that they can...
Who’d Have Thought It?
You don’t always know where fate is going to lead you. When I was at school – and, later, at university – I knew only one thing about my career: that I would not become a teacher. So, of course, I ended up in teaching, and had a fairly successful time of it. However,...
Choosing Your Wedding Suppliers
Choosing your wedding suppliers is a potential minefield. Which suppliers will you actually need? What sort of budget can you allocate to each one? How do you choose between suppliers of the same (or similar) articles? How do you know they will be reliable? Necessary...
Wedding Law reform update
My blog dated September 13th 2022 covered the proposals set before government for wedding law reform. After considerable deliberation, the Law Commission had presented these proposals in July 2022. An interim response was promised within 6 months and a final response...
First Steps Towards Planning Your Wedding
Exciting as it may be, planning your wedding can initially be bewildering. Perhaps a little guidance at this point would be useful? A good starting point would be to ensure that you are on the same page as your intended. So initial considerations would include date...
Music for weddings
Music at weddings seems almost a given. The music adds to the atmosphere as well as covering potentially uncomfortable silences. It can be mood-changing and clearly has a lot of significance for a great many people. So, when planning your wedding, you will want to...
Halloween is Here!
It must be difficult to be unaware of the fact, but Halloween is upon us! Perhaps you received a “trick or treat” visit or two at the weekend? There may be more to come tonight. Ignore it, if you wish, but Halloween has become a fixed part of our calendar. Have you...
Getting the Right Celebrant
You may not have seen a civil celebrant in action. You may not even know anybody who has. How are you going to get the right celebrant, if you’re fishing while virtually blind-folded? Where to Begin If you can’t get a personal recommendation, then the internet is a...
Humour and Ceremonies
Humour and ceremonies don’t seem to go together, do they? After all, a life-cycle ceremony is a major event. It can be a Wedding, a Vow Renewal, a Handfasting, a Naming Ceremony, a mixed-faith service, or whatever … If you choose (and go to the trouble and expense) to...