Welcome to my blog

This blog is a compilation of thoughts, musings and experiences of my life as a Civil Celebrant, mixed in with my reactions to relevant current events and news stories. There’s always lots to talk about!
Farewell?

Farewell?

I've been writing my blog (almost!) every Tuesday for a dozen years now. True, most of these have been celebration-related, but I've also done quite a few for my funeral website. It's difficult to be sure, but the amount of effort I put into writing the blogs doesn't...

Being at your Best for your Big Day

Being at your Best for your Big Day

It seems pretty obvious that you want to enjoy your big day, whether it be wedding, Vow Renewal, handfasting, naming or whatever. You’re most likely to do so, if you’re in good physical and mental shape. It’s not as hard as it might seem to get fit for the big day. So...

Keeping Cheerful with a Ceremony

Keeping Cheerful with a Ceremony

Keeping cheerful is what it’s all about, really. Especially now we’ve certainly reached Autumn. The dark, cold days and nights of Winter can be an attraction for some, but are not relished by many. It’s easier to keep cheerful, if you have something to look forward...

Your Wedding Countdown

Your Wedding Countdown

Have you just got engaged (congratulations!)? Have you recently decided to get married? Have you thought about what you need to do? Is the clock ticking? Wouldn’t it be useful to have a list of what you need to do – and a suggested deadline for carrying it out? That’s...

Embracing or Avoiding the Wedding Planner?

Embracing or Avoiding the Wedding Planner?

Deciding whether you need certain suppliers for your wedding can be a conundrum. Of course, you have to pay them a lot of money, but they do offer peace of mind. That applies particularly to Wedding Planners. Let’s see if we can unpick this a little. General You’re...

Why Bother With a Naming Ceremony?

Why Bother With a Naming Ceremony?

It’s great to be able to celebrate in these trying times. It’s lovely to mark a rite of passage. These are reasons enough to celebrate a Naming ceremony. (Not to say that we should not embrace other ceremonies, liked mixed-faith services, Vow Renewals, Handfastings...

How to go about Creating a Ceremony

How to go about Creating a Ceremony

Nobody claims that putting together your bespoke ceremony is easy. It may come together beautifully, with the minimum of effort and stress, but that is not usually the rule. However, certain difficulties can be foreseen and thus prepared for. Then they may not seem...

Mixed-Faith Minefield

Mixed-Faith Minefield

Mixed-faith ceremonies do have the potential to become a minefield, if you are not careful. But relax! There are ways of ensuring that all goes well. The right attitude is paramount. Disagreements may well arise, so accept that. What matters is how you confront and...

Crying at Ceremonies

Crying at Ceremonies

Emotions can run high at ceremonies. Not just at funerals, but also at celebrations. Weddings, fairly obviously, but also at namings, vow renewals – or at any public occasion. But is it OK to cry in public? And does it make a difference at what sort of occasion you...