Welcome to my blog

This blog is a compilation of thoughts, musings and experiences of my life as a Civil Celebrant, mixed in with my reactions to relevant current events and news stories. There’s always lots to talk about!
Music for weddings

Music for weddings

Music at weddings seems almost a given. The music adds to the atmosphere as well as covering potentially uncomfortable silences. It can be mood-changing and clearly has a lot of significance for a great many people. So, when planning your wedding, you will want to...

Halloween is Here!

Halloween is Here!

It must be difficult to be unaware of the fact, but Halloween is upon us! Perhaps you received a “trick or treat” visit or two at the weekend? There may be more to come tonight. Ignore it, if you wish, but Halloween has become a fixed part of our calendar. Have you...

Getting the Right Celebrant

Getting the Right Celebrant

You may not have seen a civil celebrant in action. You may not even know anybody who has. How are you going to get the right celebrant, if you’re fishing while virtually blind-folded? Where to Begin If you can’t get a personal recommendation, then the internet is a...

Humour and Ceremonies

Humour and Ceremonies

Humour and ceremonies don’t seem to go together, do they? After all, a life-cycle ceremony is a major event. It can be a Wedding, a Vow Renewal, a Handfasting, a Naming Ceremony, a mixed-faith service, or whatever … If you choose (and go to the trouble and expense) to...

Your Stand-out Ceremony

Your Stand-out Ceremony

You may not be aware of the available choices for a wedding service. This applies especially if you''re looking for a stand-out ceremony. Options Religious A traditional wedding may well work for you, and that’s fine. But it may not reflect the real you. You may not...

Healthy Mind and Body

Healthy Mind and Body

"Mens sana in corpore sano." That’s what I seem to remember from my schoolboy Latin. The author was called Juvenal, I recall. He had the right idea, I think. "A healthy mind in a healthy body." You need to be in good health to make the best of things. Not least, your...

Wedding Food and Drink

Wedding Food and Drink

Wow! Wedding food and drink is a big area to cover! I’ll do my best, but please accept that there are limits to what I can discuss here. And I am a celebrant, rather than a caterer! So, bon appetit! Drink There are a lot of things to balance up before you decide how...

All About Elopements

All About Elopements

Many people assume that an elopement is very cloak-and-dagger. The bride (or groom) has been forbidden to marry his/her loved one and is locked away. Bravely, the prisoner escapes in the depths of the night and, together with the beloved, somehow goes to Gretna Green....

Things don’t have to be gloomy after all

Things don’t have to be gloomy after all

However you define it, we've reached Autumn now. The days are shorter, children are back at – or preparing for – school. We’re on the path towards the dark damp, cold days of Winter. Sounds depressing, eh? Well, it needn’t be. Especially if you have something to look...